10/10/10 Principle And Money Manifestation

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The practice of doing the 10 /10/ 10 rule with my money allocation has had a direct impact on my life in many different ways. It has built within myself a trust in the Universe, a trust in myself, and a new found self confidence in a way I never imaged or expected to be honest. I am very excited to share this practice with you and I hope you see the value enough to implement it in your own life.

What is the 10/10/10 rule?

It is a percentage money allocation. Each 10 stands for ten percent of your income allocated to a specific area. The 10 percents go to these three categories: giving, spending, and saving. So you are taking a total of 30% of your income and allocating 10% to each category.

Before I dive into the specifics of each category and the significance and importance of it, I first want to explain what money even is…

Money is purely a symbol. Money is an exchange of energy for value provided. It is a flow. There are many words we use when referencing money but the most common term associated with it is the word “currency. ” Currency comes from the Latin word “currens” which means to circulate, run, or flow. . Circulation means a constant movement.  Since money is an energy flow it must always be in motion and never stagnant. If you stop the circulation by grasping onto the money that comes into your life by hoarding it, you will literally stop the circulation for more money to come in.

I want you to stick your hand out right now. Now with your hand out in front of you, I want you to make a fist and clench your hand shut. Now clench it even harder. Now imagine someone coming in and trying to place money in your hand. Where is it going to go? With your hand being clenched and closed off you are not allowing for more of that energy flow referred to as money to come into your life. If there is only one way in and never a way out energetically it can't breathe which eventually causes death in a sense.

Another example would be the Dead Sea in Israel. There is only one way water flows into the dead sea causing it to stay stagnant as there is no additional flow of energy out. Life literally cannot be sustained in the waters of the Dead Sea because of how pollutant and toxic the waters are to sea life. This furthers proves the need for energy to be in a flowing movement.

Money holds only the value you place on it. It will always reflect your intrinsic self worth or self value that you believe to be true. If you feel good and value yourself highly it it the law that more money will find its way into your life.

  1. 10% Save

Saving money is a crucial habit to get into. You work hard for your money and deserve to pay yourself first. By implementing a habit of always saving 10% of your income no matter what you are setting yourself and your finances up for long term success. Even if right now you are only earning $100 and able to save $10, that is still something!!

Over time as you stick with this discipline your money will grow and that number will only get larger and larger. This causes you to feel more secure as you have a larger cushion of money as well as your self confidence will grow because you are moving in the right direction in regards to being a master of your finances.

Money attracts more money. When you begin to save and it grows you will naturally attract more money into your life. You deserve to feel good about your money babe!

2. 10% Spend

I love this allocation of the 10/10/10 rule- It’s to spend ten percent of your income on YOURSELF! Because hey, the universe loves you and wants you to feel good, abundant, and enjoy life.

A lot of times people will have the mindset that they can't spend money on themselves, they even feel blame shame and guilt around it.  If they are in debt people think that every single penny has to go towards their payments and they must sacrifice and suffer in the meantime. I am not saying to not be conscious and make smart decisions with regards to your financial responsibilities, what I am saying is you are not meant to suffer in regards to money. This withholding from treating yourself causes a feeling of “I’m not good enough, or I’m not worthy…” You and I both know that is bullshit!

It’s ok to spend money on yourself. In fact it makes the whole process more fun. If you allow yourself to spend the allocated money freely with no guilt or shame it breeds a natural feeling of abundance. Which in return creates more abundance and prosperity in your life.

Treat yo’self babe. You fucking deserve it.

3. 10% Give

“True fulfillment in life doesn’t come from what we get, it comes from what we give.”

Tony Robbins


Honestly I didn’t always feel this way. In fact, I used to be extremely selfish and self centered..That certainly wasn’t serving me.I now understand the value of contribution. ⠀
I believe there is more than enough resources for everyone.I don’t grasp onto things so tightly as I once did...And to be honest- I like the way giving feels so much more.

The practice of ‘tithing’ ( which literally means 1/ 10 or one tenth) has been around since the beginning of time. Giving of your money to those in need creates endless blessings to everyone involved. You are blessing those less fortunate then you with a gift, and at the same time you are spreading love and abundance into the universe. No deed goes unnoticed, ever. When you give, the Universe will bless you in return. Tenfold.

When I first started this practice of money management I didn’t know who to donate to but I understood the value of giving. I would go on go fund me and find people I connected with and choose to bless them. If I knew of someone personally that was struggling I would bless them with money. I still like to spread my 10% contribution to those I am drawn to help but a majority of my donations now go to a beautiful charity called ‘Bright Mothers.’ One of my very best friends actually founded this organization and it gives college scholarships to single mothers. I think this cause is absolutely beautiful and myself being a huge advocate of knowledge am more than honored to be able to contribute to them. If you would like to learn more about this wonderful charity please visit their website at www.brightmothers.org

Make this practice of the 10/10/10 rule a discipline a habit in your life. Make this a non-negotiable. Choose to operate from a place of abundance, always telling yourself “ The more I give the more I receive.”

Remember that money is an unlimited renewable resource. Wealth is all around us!


”Money comes from the Universe through other people.”


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The Universe Is Training You Never Testing You

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The Universe is training you never testing you. It’s a very common phrase I hear all the time of people saying that this must be some sort of a “test” from the Universe.

Viewing things as a test implies that there is a chance to fail. When you have a test there is the opportunity to pass or to fail. The Universe always operates from a place of love and adoration. The Universe always has your highest and best good in mind. It wants to bring you what you want in your heart and soul

The Universe is NEVER testing you.. It is training you. It’s a simple switch in the way you view what is happening. Situations being presented to you over and over again, that at one time you may have referred to as a test, can now be viewed as the Universe’s way of training you.


You will keep being sent the same situation over and over again until you learn the lesson that is needed to be learned from it, gain the clarity you need from it, or develop the skill set required for the next up-level of your life.


The words that you tell yourself are super important. There is a lot of association with the words we use. They can be interpreted as positive or as negative. A little trick I like to use in my daily life is whenever I am sore from working out instead of saying “I’m sore” I change my inner dialogue to “I’m Strong”. The entire feeling of the statement changes yet I am referring to the same physical sensation in my body. I am just choosing to use empowering words rather than negative ones.


As situations are presented into your life through the Universe’s efforts to train you they will continue to present themselves to you again and again. They may just be packaged in a newer prettier bow each time around. Until you learn that lesson or develop that skill you will continue to be trained.


Another way that the Universe loves to provide training is through our life's challenges. Whenever you look back to a time in your life that was difficult and you struggled- that was also a training for you. I look back to the time in my life when I went through a very deep depression and had I not gone through that I wouldn't have half the fire under my ass I do today! It trained me to have a deep compassion and a genuine desire to help other people feel better and regain the belief within themselves.


When I went through that time in my life I was trained to develop discipline in myself. I was trained to develop self love. Trained to pick my ass up and do something about it. Trained to feel compassion. Trained to learn how to be resourceful. Trained to figure out how to get things done.


Whatever struggle or hardship you may be going through right now, please just trust the process. Trust that there is a reason this is happening and that there is something that is really beautiful that will come out of it.


The Universe operates from a place of unconditional love. It wants you to learn and grow through it.


Everything you are going through is training you to be strong. It’s training you to be mentally tough. It’s training you to be unfuckwith-able.


Honor what you are going through. Be grateful for what you are going through. Be grateful for what you’re going through.


IN THIS EPISODE:

Misconception of the perception of the Universe “testing” you [1:46]

The Universe is always unfolding in your favor [2:29]

Your words matter [3:31]

Lessons may be packaged in a different pretty bow [5:55]

Life’s challenges are training opportunities [6:47]

My own struggle in life and what came out of it [7:33]

Universe’s unconditional love [9:27]

Golden Quotes:

“The Universe loves you”

“The Universe adores you”

“ Within every adversity lies the seed of an equivalent opportunity” -Napoleon Hill

“The Universe Adores You”

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How Starting My Online Business Healed My Depression

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I promise you things are going to get better. Make a choice. Make a decision that you’re going to take matters into your own hands. You are going to do what needs to be done.

I have dealt with depression on and off throughout my life. I have gone through periods of time where I didn’t even want to get out of bed…

In 2017 it got to an all time low. I was making bad decisions for my health, my finances, my heart and soul.

I was going in a massive downward spiral.

The thing that saved my life was my first trip abroad. I fell in love with traveling and my eyes were opened to the world.

When I returned, I was dead set on getting an online job so I could have location freedom.

I began researching, studying, and applying for jobs I wasn’t qualified for. I was proving to the universe that I was serious. Then I shifted my focus to trying to find a business opportunity online due to my entrepreneurial background.

I always had this vision of what I wanted to be. The person I was showing up at that time of my life was not who I was as a human being. I knew I had so much more potential. When I made the decision to start the online business. I knew I had to step into a new version of myself in order to accomplish what I was wanting.

It didn’t happen overnight. I didn’t automatically feel good right away. I knew what I needed to do and I made a plan. I made a decision that I was going to just focus on “winning the day” and put all of my energy into that instead of focusing on the big picture and becoming overwhelmed with the amount of work that was needing to be done.

Chunking things down and working on bite sized actionable goals really serves me. It allows me to focus on that one thing, accomplish it, and then move forward onto the next task.

I started asking myself “What can I do today to make my business better, What can I do today to learn more?”

I began to trust myself again.

Doing the small things everyday is what made the biggest difference.

I am a perpetual knowledge seeker. I first watched ‘The Secret’ when I was 16. I became obsessed. I was always incredibly interested in all things psychology, mindset and self help. But even with having this knowledge I had just seemed to have forgotten who I was. I drowned in my own pity. BUT -I knew what it was gonna take to get myself out. I knew the action steps to take.

I continually emerged myself in positive uplifting things such as books, podcasts, courses. I told myself over and over again ‘I got this, I got this.’

I borrowed success from my past. I looked back at the times in my life when I was successful or I had accomplished something I thought to be impressive. I looked back to who I was showing up as in that time of my life. I looked for the traits and the characteristics that that version of myself was embodying.

I also became ruthless with cutting out the negative people in my life. I was on a mission to make a network of people I loved and that supported me.

I was HUNGRY for it. I wanted to get after it. I wanted to learn. I wanted to grow.

Its time to step up and be the person I was meant to be.

I made the conscious choice to be happy.

Instead of focusing on what I didn’t have or what I thought I should have. I just immensely focused on what I was grateful for.

You are loved.

You are perfect.

You are divine.

In this episode:

My courageous decision [1:45]

Dealing with depression [2:27]

Traveling saved me [3:24]

Discovering online business opportunities [4:44]

Amazon Business [6:04]

I knew I was destined for more in my life [7:59]

Shift in my mindset [9:08]

Winning the day [9:37]

Small wins over time add up [10:41]

How I made my business paths decision [11:45]

Losing myself to then bouncing back [12:40]

Borrowing success from my past [13:23]

Be ruthless with who you are surrounded with [14:19]

My hunger for success [15:21]

Working on my Mindset [16:57]

Gratitude [17:36]

You are loved [18:28]

Golden Quotes:

“Make the choice to get yourself out of whatever it is you are dealing with”

“It gets better- I promise you”

“I was showing the universe I was serious”

“I knew I had to step into a new version of myself in order to accomplish what I was wanting.”

“I knew what I needed to do and I made a plan.”

“Borrow success from your past successes”

“It’s time to step up and be that person.”


“ Commit to never quitting”

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How Kael Manifested 58,000 Followers on Instagram

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In this episode I interview Kael Roberts- online business entrepreneur and social media expert. We discuss her own journey in business and how she manifested 58,000 followers on Instagram. She also gives some great social media growth insider tips.

Kael started in fitness industry, as a fitness health and wellness coach.

She loves the use of social media to encourage motivate and “pump up” clients in addition to it being a free business tool.

She talks about how forgiving yourself and healing from your past is the way to become a better you. Discovering new beliefs about yourself allows you the gumption to take risks and give it a shot.

Kael experienced a tragic injury which was a blessing in disguise. She had a negative outlook on life and was really hard on herself, but the physical therapists were incredibly encouraging. Going to physical therapy turned into the highlight of her week because of connecting with an encouraging group of people.

Business tip: get extremely clear on what you want and why you want it. Ask yourself-How will this affect me and the people around me?

Be patient with yourself, forgive your mistakes, learn your lessons and move on in a positive way.

Her role model is her mom. Her mom owns her own business which when she first started it there wasn't a lot of support, but her mom proved everyone wrong and is an incredibly successful business woman today. She defied the odds. Kael is motivated to match her mamas hustle.

How Kael grew her social media following-

Relevancy and consistency. She was able to connect with her community. She showed up consistently at the same days and times. She engages back with people who engage with her content which instills a deeper relationship with her audience.

In this Episode:

Kael’s intro and background [1:51]

Using Social Media as a FREE business tool [3:33]

Becoming a better person through healing and forgiveness  [6:56]

An injury lead to a new opportunity in life [8:47]

Piece of advice for starting your own business [11:39]

Tech is her biggest frustration in business [14:14]

Kael’s role model [16:01]

Cleaning out the closet of your life [19:14]

How Kael grew her following [20:10]

What her intention behind Instagram was [22:22]

Connecting with people all over the world [24:48]

What Kael is working on now [25:45]

Golden Quotes:

“Becoming a better you comes from healing from your past heartaches”

“Within every adversity comes the seed of an equivalent opportunity”

“Be patient with yourself. Be patient through your mistakes”

“Success is no accident”

Links mentioned:

www.kaelroberts.com

@the_kael_kollective

The Power of One Positive Thought


“Success is no accident”

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Clearing Your Mind Of Doubt

Today is all about clearing your mind of doubt.

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First of all, what is doubt?

Doubt is a belief that comes from a place of uncertainty, a lack of conviction, and fear.

There are two different definitions for the word fear. Fuck everything and run. OR Face everything and rise. Which version of that word do you think is going to serve you more?

 When we choose to face everything and rise we are putting our faith in ourselves knowing that the universe has our back.

 The way we overcome doubt is by creating positive belief systems within ourselves. That we believe with absolute certainty to be true.

So in order to do that we need to examine our belief systems. There are 4 things we need to consider-

  1. We need to understand first what a belief is

  2. Where they come from

  3. Uncover your own personal limiting beliefs aka- the things we are telling ourselves every single day ( realizing they are bullshit)

  4. Forming new positive beliefs that will serve us in moving forward with our lives and accomplishing our goals.




    1. So what is a “belief” anyways?

    A belief is just a thought we think over and over again with incredible conviction and emotion. There is no rule book for the beliefs you believe. You can literally choose to believe anything you want.

    I’ll give you a quick example of a belief system. Say you are wearing a white shirt. I mean clear as day, white as white can be T-shirt. Your friend comes up to you and says “ hey I like your blue shirt” You think to yourself “huh?” Can’t you see this shirt is white? But what you don't realize is, your friend is wearing a pair of sunglasses that forces him to see everything that is white show up as the color blue. No matter how many times you try to convince him that your shirt is white, he sees blue, and he believes it to be blue.

    Wanna know the cool thing about this? Those blue sunglasses can be removed once you realize they are in place. With a simple shift in your mind ( or in this case simply removing the blue colored sunglasses) you can see things with a completely different perspective.

 

2. Understanding where the beliefs come from.

 The majority of our beliefs about ourselves come from birth to age 7. Young minds are incredibly impressionable. When we are children our minds are completely open and vulnerable to believing everything we are told. We absorb what we hear to be the truth. Many of our beliefs come from things our parents or caretakers said to us. A lot of the beliefs also come from what we observed the adults in our lives doing and saying.  

Did your parents fight around you because of money, were you always told you weren't smart enough or couldn't figure it out? Take a second to think back to that time in your life and be a detective for yourself.

 3. What are your personal limiting beliefs.

 Given the fact that it is your job to monitor your thoughts, you have to be willing to do the work. You have to be willing to take a look inside and get really real with yourself.  

4.  What are your new empowering beliefs

 It takes the same amount of energy to think thoughts of abundance and joy as it does to think thoughts of lack and scarcity.

 When you realize this there is immense power behind it because you get to take back control of our minds.

 Look at your list of limiting beliefs. Now create new empowering positive beliefs that are going to serve you in moving forward in life and towards your goals.

 Examples: I’m not good enough, I’m not smart enough, good things never happen to me.

FUCK THAT!

 I AM enough.

I AM intelligent.

Good things ALWAYS happen to me.


Say these out loud. Repeat them to yourself over and over and over again. Condition your subconscious mind to believe these new thoughts.

Negative thoughts are normal.

They are a normal part of life. Negative thoughts however are not successful. Don’t ignore the negative thoughts, handle them. You don't have to unpack and live there, but you have to choose to move through it.

 Jim Rohn has a great quote that says : “ You must stand guard at the gate of your mind every single day”. It is your job to monitor your thoughts. You are the only person who determines what you say to yourself. Be excited about that. Take ownership in it.

“You get to take back control the quality of your life”

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The Six Principles of Manifestation

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In order to become a manifestation master we must first understand what manifestation even is, how it works, and then how to apply the principles in our lives.

Manifestation is all about conditioning your subconscious mind, monitoring your thoughts, and choosing to feel the certain feelings that you are hoping to gain after having manifested something into your life.

Manifestation and the law of attraction are beautiful things to explore, learn, and practice. Manifestation is an outward materialization of choosing to do the inner personal work on yourself. It’s a glorious reward in my opinion. Choosing to really narrow in on your thought patterns and then do the work to actually shift it is what it’s all about.

When I started shifting my focus onto creating a life I wanted and focusing on where I was going versus what I didn't have, I'll tell you my life changed. I feel happier now than I literally ever have in my entire life. It didn't happen overnight. It didn't happen on accident. I became obsessed with healing myself and with healing my way of thinking. I conditioned myself to catch my feelings early, asses them, and then do something about them instead of letting myself go down the rabbit hole of blame shame and guilt.


I chose to be less intensely focused on the problems or questions in my life and chose to feel more anticipation of the solution and the answer.


So, what is the most crucial part manifestation? The answer is- feelings.

A lot of times people will think “ when i lose the weight”  or “ when I marry the man” or “when I make the money” then i'll be happy. But that is not how it works. You see thinking that way creates a gap in your vibration and emits a feeling of lack. If you are focusing on what you don't have then you are creating more of just that, a lack. If what you are wanting to manifest into your life ultimately is going to bring you feelings of joy, accomplishment, and happiness the quickest way to materialize those manifestations is to FEEL those feelings right now.

You might be thinking, but how do i feel that when I don't have what is is I am trying to manifest? Well my answer to that is to make a choice to feel good. Take a look around your life and choose something you truly are grateful and focus all your energy and attention on that. Focus all your attention on those feelings of love, warmth, and joy. Even if what your thinking about is not what you are wanting to manifest, it doesn't matter. What matters is feeling good. The universe responds to the vibration of your feelings.

So let’s say you want to manifest a relationship. Instead of focusing on the lack of not having someone there, focus on the feelings you would feel if the person were there. Comfort, support, love. Or better yet focus on how delicious the cup of coffee you just drank was and put all of your attention on that. ( sounds funny right?) This is how you shift your focus from being on something you don’t have to feeling good.  

Make up your mind that nothing is more important than how you feel now, because now is everything. Now is the power of me. Now, now, now, now now. You might as well start somewhere, and it might as well be now. Why not start improving your life now?

The universe/ source / god whatever you want to call it, knows you better than you know yourself. It got all its information about what you like from you, and has remembered every piece of it and has put it together in perfect formation.  It knows exactly what you want and is always working with your highest and best good in mind. Sometimes things unfold in our lives that at the time seem negative. It’s the universe's way of showing you what you don't want, in order to get crystal clear on what you do want. This is creating an opening for an even better blessing to manifest. Better than you could have ever even imagined. Allow them into your life.  

Ready for the manifestation principles breakdown? I thought so;)

  1. Get really clear on what you want.

    The universe loves specificity. Details are key. The more specific and descriptive we can be with what we want the quicker the universe will deliver.

  2. Believe without with everything in your soul that you can have it.

    You are divinely perfect. You are worthy of everything you can imagine and desire. It’s time to start believing that about yourself. It’s time start allowing the endless blessings to pour into your life

  3. Eliminate why it won’t work.

    So you have never had something like this in your life before, or have never achieved this kind of success. SO WHAT? Stop telling yourself the bullshit story as to why is wont work. The only person you are hindering when you tell yourself why it wont work is yourself. I mean come on now, you know better than that.

  4. Believe the new truth about why you tell yourself it will work.

    See yourself as this new version of yourself. See yourself having what is is you are wanting to manifest. Visualize all the sweet juicy details. What is looks like, smells like, feels like. Know it to be true with an unwavering belief.

  5. Detachment is key. Release “how” you think it should happen.

    You don’t need to know the “how”. You just need to make the commitment to focus all of your energy into what it is you want. Make your mind up and watch just how quickly the universe responds.

  6. Receive.

    Be open to receiving. Be open to blessings coming into your life in ways you never expected or imagined. Manifestation doesn't need to look a certain way. That’s not your job, allow the universe to deliver.

You truly deserve endless blessings. Remember to love yourself first and foremost.

Ask. Believe. Receive.

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Welcome to the Show!

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Welcome to the Paige Cole Show Podcast!

In this very first trailer episode I am introducing myself, sharing my story and my experience, and giving a bit of insight into what tuning into the show will be all about. I believe that if you can master your mind you can master your business. I am obsessed with the Law of Attraction, Mindset, and all things entrepreneurial. 

I believes that your mind is your strongest muscle, which like your body, requires daily repetition and reaffirmation. Think of this podcast like your daily “mindset gym fix”.

This podcast if for anyone who wants to up-level their lives, commit to moving forward, manifest more money, grow their business through spiritual principles, and choose and move! If you are looking for all things manifestation, mindset, and business you have found the right show!

“We are co-creators of our lives…”

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